Baby sleep: let shouting? The question can I cry my baby? \”is again provided by parents and shows the great uncertainty that plagues parents. On the one hand to hear from pediatricians, psychologists, family members and others repeatedly, must make even screaming babies. On the other hand, parents feel that it cannot agree. You ask as mothers, as it is them, screaming her baby to leave, so the vast majority of replies that they suffer from strong. You feel helpless and guilty.
Long term, it undermines the confidence and the intuition of the mother, as you not on your feelings, listen to your stomach, but on dubious advice. The parents who decide not to respond when your baby cries, then think they would do something good for their babies so. They want to teach the sleep them in this way or you want to prevent that they are pampered and this can exist in our society. Like this is Attached argument, that a baby is by alone to stop screaming, if you shout it only a while. Of course has a baby, like every other living thing, a certain tolerance margin for bearing of unpleasant experiences. This tolerance can be claimed but too much never. After all, the answer to the question I can’t even cry my baby?\”can only mean: No.
Controlled crying permit – i.e., I hear my baby crying and I decide to do this, not to comfort it is not the child’s needs and is thus detrimental. If a baby cries, it has always a good reason also if we didn’t recognize it. The baby has no other way to express his needs and it is dependent on his parents. Parents not enter regularly on the signals of their baby, the baby loses confidence in himself and his parents. These are not good conditions for functioning in our society.